Okay, so I kinda didn't want to rant on my blog at all but right now I really don't care. So I just wanted to say that being the fall back friend really sucks! What I mean by that is those friends who never say a word to you for weeks or months, and then they come back and are all like "omg my other friends hate me and I have nothing to do tonight. Wanna hang out?" HA. Why would anyone want to hang out with someone who made them feel like a last resort? It's like telling the fruit salad at desert "Oh the choclate cake is all gone so I guess I'm stuck with you..." It's not only rude but it's as if they think you're stupid enough not to realise what they are doing. I'm actually very aware of what people do to me and if it weren't for my hatred of confrontations I would have no problem telling them to their faces what I think. And depending on how close I am with the friend I normally will hint if something is wrong. It just goes to show how unappreciative some people can be of friendship. If you want to keep a good stabe friendship with someone then always give 100% and the other friend will give 100% in return. Who wants a friend that only gives 50% on this day and 90% on that day? It's inconsistent and noone likes inconsistency. Well that's basically it. But just a lesson to everyone: Don't be inconsistent, don't be a fall back friend, and don't have any fall back friends, and always give 100% to a friendship.
with love, Becky :)
